Monday, September 8, 2014

It's Just a Matter of Change.

        I've read a book saying that "THOUGHT  LIFE" is what we feed and what goes inside the mind of a person. Our thought life  affects the way we think, the way we feel and the way we make decisions.

      The things we let to reside in our minds affect our actions.We withdraw whatever we deposit. Whether we are aware or not, we are moved by them. When our mindset is not right, so as the result of our action is not right. Sometimes, we feel disappointed or worse, we feel miserable. Thing is, when people are miserable, usually they end up making other people miserable too, even without the intention of doing so.

      How can we avoid these things to happen?


Let's check your mind:

*What are the things that you've been thinking? For the past few days, or weeks?
*Are these thoughts bring out the best in you or the worst in you?
*How did your thoughts affect you and other people around you? Are you comfortable about it or do you find it stressful? 

   Based on your personal response, you'll be pointing out some reasons why you need to change your way of thinking.


      Empty your mind and start filling it again.You can start from reading. Be sure that you pick good books or even good articles. Those that can feed up and enrich your soul, challenge you to be better at your best everyday, ones which can give you stronger faith that you can accomplish things greater than yourself and will teach you not to lose hope and to never stop dreaming big dreams. For me, there's no greater than reading the Bible. Fill your mind with fresh and bright thoughts. Things that are beautiful, joyous, empowering, true, admirable, excellent and reputable. Fill it with the best, never with the worst; throw off "garbage thoughts".
    I believe that the best days are always ahead of us and not behind us. Be on your guard and keep an eye for the right timing and right opportunities. Timing is everything. Just make sure that you are making the most out of it, for it's part of your so called "limited resources". Make plans. Set goals. Then work on it. Every-Single-Day.

      We are victors so stop acting like you're a victim. The reason why people see themselves useless or unfruitful is that because they imprisoned themselves to their past failures. Others chose to settle for good things instead of getting better or the best things. They stop trying again because of the fear of failing again, they don't like facing pains. They remain bitter and they can't accept the fact that it's the result of their choice.

   The only choice we have is to make choices, we all do have a choice right?

          If you're afraid of pain, face it and deal with it. How can you enjoy happiness if you don't know how painful life can be sometimes?
          If you're bitter about your past, admit you are wrong and accept it. There's nothing you can change about it, but you can always do something about it. Use it and do better next time. Your past doesn't define you, what you are in the present does.
          If you're afraid to fail, try again then fail again. "Only those who dare to fail greatly can ever achieve greatly." as Robert Kennedy said.

          Life and success is journey. Don't stay longer to stop-overs, keep moving. Maybe you'll be discouraged, but it's part of it. It's okay not to be alright sometimes. 

         Stop blaming others for what you've become. Try pointing into mirror and see who's responsible for everything. Life is never unfair, we just always get what we deserve. Everything is temporary so never cling on things too much. Face the reality, accept your weaknesses, accept your limitations, then start to overcome and change.

There is more to life, more to discover, more to learn. Why come out of your box to see it and to live that life at it's best? 


 "For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." Jeremiah 29:11

1 comment:

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